Take care and keep talking here as long as it helps. I hope you can all get past this and I hope the sick prick gets what he deserves.
I must not be understanding this correctly.. He should be explaining why he molested me, apologize, and say he won't do it again! Let your voice be heard - you do not have to wait to go into the recovery room to feed your newborn. I know we all run off instinct but you chose to ignore your conscious in regards to this situation. He just stops by unannounced.
Her dad is extremely sick. You are the same as his daughter. You are around them enough to be like a daughter and he has daughters. I wouldn't want this to be my husband. If you say anything, you WILL be verbally abused. Rumors will fly. You WILL lose this friend and possibly tear .
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Cool with me. You're white-listed. Let's go! Instead scream LOOK AT WHAT I SURVIVED! Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by WiseMonkey » Tue Jun 26, am Hi struggling, After what you have been through your well-being should be your priority. I understand that those cases are often difficult or virtually impossible to prove, and that's why the police often ends the investigation soon after starting it because of the lack of evidence and don't arrest the perpetrator. This usually adds to victims' trauma and is too much for them to deal with.
So I do understand what makes you feel reluctant to report what happened to you to the authorities. But therapy is a different story. I can't imagine any therapist being not supportive of you when they hear your story. So, again, I think, seeing a professional is the first thing that I'd recommend you to do, and, of course, keep talking here. Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by struggling » Tue Jun 26, am Thank you for your support and believing me.
I am going to go to the doctor to try and get anxiety medication because I'm concerned about the chest pain I've been experiencing. I will go to a therapist eventually but right now it's hard enough for me to finish my school work, graduate, and look for a job. Once I get settled into a new job and new apartment and separate myself from my family I will go into therapy and consider reporting the crime. I don't see much point in reporting it because I have no evidence. They won't believe me because I would tell them about how my mom was there but she's in denial so the police probably won't believe me.
I'm scared that my dad will do this again if he knows he can commit the crime and get away with it. It's gonna be hell for me when he comes back and I have to live with him but I'll just grit my teeth and bare it like I always have. It will motivate me to get a new job and apartment. It's good to be in this group to have people tell me I'm not crazy, I'm not making it up, and what he did was horrible.
I worked as a stripper for years and considered what he did to me a gift because I was able to block stuff out. Like when the men would touch me I wouldn't like it but I could block it out because that's what I did was I was abused.
I made a lot of money stripping but I want to get out of it because I'm getting too old for that stuff. I get into bad mental places where I don't trust and hate everyone but being with friends is good therapy.
I'm planning on moving away from my family and never talking to them again because it's so psychologically damaging for me when they tell me I'm crazy and that I'm evil for making up terrible lies.
I don't think I could ever get married because my husband would ask why I don't talk to my family and if I told anyone they'd judge me so harshly. There's a bad social stigma surrounding this subject even though I was an innocent victim. I can't stand being around men who are attracted to youth and that seems to be all men. The only thing that makes me feel better is I knew an ex boyfriend of mine would never molest a child because he hates child molesters because his mother's father raped her and my ex-boyfriend was attracted to how I was 5 years older than him.
His problem was that he was a cheater but that's small beans compared to a child molester. I just can't wait to move away from my family so I can begin the healing process but it's going to be hell until that happens.
Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by WiseMonkey » Tue Jun 26, am struggling, I am sorry that you are temporarily stuck at your parents' house. I am hoping that you'll get a new job and will be able to move out soon. What you said sounds like a good plan. I agree, you have to take one step at a time or else you'll loose your balance.
I am glad you are going to see a doctor for anxiety meds. I completely agree about the stigma that surrounds the issue of sexual abuse.
Unfortunately, our society, as a whole, is still poorly educated about it and tends to blame victims. I also understand your concerns about reporting, that's why I would never suggest that it absolutely has to be done. This is one of those issues, where I believe that every situation is unique and there is no right solution. Take care and keep talking here as long as it helps. Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by struggling » Wed Jun 27, pm I'm surprised at how much it helps to talk on here.
I think it helps so much because my family is completely unsupportive by implying that I'm making it up because I'm crazy or mean. My sisters steal from me a lot and my mom doesn't believe me about that, either. I've decided I need to move away from my family and never come back, not even talk to them again. My sisters pretend to be nice to me but then they steal from me even though I'm so poor and they make good money.
My entire family has been verbally abusive to me and my mother's allowed it. They will take anything of value from me, including boyfriends, and then pretend to be nice to my face and they never stop denying it. They pretend to be completely innocent but they're really leeches. My mom verbally abused me for a long time. I need so much help and all I get from her is harsh criticism. I'm so emotionally fragile at this time I can't deal with any of this. Disowning my family hurts so much and I'll be so lonely but I really can't deal with this anyone.
One time my mom was yelling at me and I broke down crying really hard and she didn't say sorry or anything, she just walked away. I've struggled with suicidal thoughts for a long time, decades, and came very close to doing it several times.
I'm not going to do it because I invented things and I think I may become rich but I still feel just as emotionally fragile. It's so important for me to turn away from my family and not come back but it's going to hurt so much. Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by WiseMonkey » Thu Jun 28, am Yes, it's always difficult to make a drastic change in one's life. And I believe it does hurt to leave home when you know that this would not be necessary if your family was loving and supportive WM.
Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by struggling » Sat Jun 30, am I tried letting the subject go but I've realized I can't talk to my family about anything. For example, today I told my mom the neighbors work on their lawn with a weed whacker, lawn mower, or leaf blower like 4 days a week at 8am and it wakes me up and it's annoying because who works on their lawn that much! She wouldn't believe me and told me it was construction on the other side of the block.
I said I can hear the difference between the two and I can see people outside my window working on the neighbors lawn but there's nothing I can say that will convince her. She refuses to believe me about anything that makes her feel uneasy because she just can't deal with problems. Another example, my sisters come into the house and steal from me. She refuses to believe this and continues to refuse to lock the doors to our house. I asked her to please lock the doors but she won't because she said it makes her feel bad that she would have to lock the door.
Locking the door is the only thing that makes me feel safe! Plus my sisters will steal anything from me and then lie about it and the way my mom goes into denial about things reinforces their behavior. I'm so sick of all their crap I swear I am finished with this family and said I will leave and never come back. I will probably still talk to my mom because she raised me and I love her in spite of all her problems but I need a lot of time away from them and am finished with my thieves of sisters.
I've been thinking about breaking into my sisters house to get my stuff back because I know she'll never give it back and it makes me so angry. I'm scared of getting caught but am pretty certain I can card the back door because everyone's at work on the weekdays. Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by WiseMonkey » Sat Jun 30, am Wow.. This is a pretty intense stuff to deal with. I'd recommend that you confront your sister instead of breaking into her home, even if you know that she won't admit she did it.
I'm just concerned that she might get you arrested. Confronting her will just let her know that you are not going to tolerate it and you will keep an eye on her when she comes over. If yes that'd be the best.
Re: My dad molested me when I was a kid by struggling » Sat Jun 30, pm I told my sister that if she didn't return the stuff I'd tell her roommates and friends she's a liar and a thief.
She's still denying it. My dad just came home even though my mom told him he needed to leave the house. He just stops by unannounced. I told him he needed to leave and he left but he kept saying "Why are you mean to your father?
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My Dad sexually abused me when I was a child. There were many times when he would kiss my neck. I remember one time he drugged me, kissed my neck, performed oral sex on me, bent me over the bed, tied my hands behind my back, inserted a vibrator into my butt, video taped it, and told me he was going to make a lot of money and I wasn't going to get any of it.
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